which date would you post in your records for a marriage, the civil record if it appears dated first or the church date if you have it? I’ve been told that parents did not consider their children married until it was done in the church and they were not allowed to live together until the church marriage. I would imagine there were couples who could not marry in the church but could have a civil marriage. What have other members of the group found?

which date would you post in your records for a marriage, the civil record if it appears dated first or the church date if you have it? I’ve been told that parents did not consider their children married until it was done in the church and they were not allowed to live together until the church marriage. I would imagine there were couples who could not marry in the church but could have a civil marriage. What have other members of the group found?

Linda in Everett