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(@lorenzocarrillo94)
Posts: 36
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So yesterday my 90 year old grandmother came for vacation. Already and she has been a great help in my quest for un-answered questions. I plan on recording / interviewing her as much as possible.

So yesterday my 90 year old grandmother came for vacation. Already and she has been a great help in my quest for un-answered questions. I plan on recording / interviewing her as much as possible. She is a goldmine of information 🙂

Sent from my iPod

 
Posted : 15/06/2011 11:30 pm
(@paul-gomez)
Posts: 224
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You are a very fortunate person!

—–Original Message—–
From: general-bounces@lists.nuestrosranchos.org
[mailto:general-bounces@lists.nuestrosranchos.org] On Behalf Of Lorenzo
Carrillo
Sent: Wednesday, June 15, 2011 4:32 PM
To: general@lists.nuestrosranchos.org
Subject: [Nuestros Ranchos] Living history

So yesterday my 90 year old grandmother came for vacation. Already and she
has been a great help in my quest for un-answered questions. I plan on
recording / interviewing her as much as possible. She is a goldmine of
information 🙂

Sent from my iPod

 
Posted : 15/06/2011 11:45 pm
(@d-i-valles)
Posts: 64
Estimable Member
 

Y no solo en es una mina de oro en información, estoy seguro que
también es una buena oportunidad para tener una relación interpersonal
muy agradable que no muchas personas tienen la fortuna de
experimentar. Si trae consigo fotografías de familiares se
complementa. Te recomiendo que aproveches preguntar por los primos de
ella y otros parientes. Es posible que si ella no te da esa
información sea muy difícil para ti encontrarla por vía documental,
personalmente me gusta preguntar sobre el estilo de vida de los
parientes. Tal ves puedas acompañarla de regreso para que examines
fotografías y alimentes la relación.

Saludos desde Gomez Palacio, Lorenzo.

Israel Valles
Durango, MX

2011/6/15, Lorenzo Carrillo :
> So yesterday my 90 year old grandmother came for vacation. Already and she
> has been a great help in my quest for un-answered questions. I plan on
> recording / interviewing her as much as possible. She is a goldmine of
> information 🙂
>
> Sent from my iPod

 
Posted : 16/06/2011 4:15 am
(@d-i-valles)
Posts: 64
Estimable Member
 

Y no solo en es una mina de oro en información, estoy seguro que
también es una buena oportunidad para tener una relación interpersonal
muy agradable que no muchas personas tienen la fortuna de
experimentar. Si trae consigo fotografías de familiares se
complementa. Te recomiendo que aproveches preguntar por los primos de
ella y otros parientes. Es posible que si ella no te da esa
información sea muy difícil para ti encontrarla por vía documental,
personalmente me gusta preguntar sobre el estilo de vida de los
parientes. Tal ves puedas acompañarla de regreso para que examines
fotografías y alimentes la relación.

Saludos desde Gomez Palacio, Lorenzo.

Israel Valles
Durango, MX

2011/6/15, Lorenzo Carrillo :
> So yesterday my 90 year old grandmother came for vacation. Already and she
> has been a great help in my quest for un-answered questions. I plan on
> recording / interviewing her as much as possible. She is a goldmine of
> information 🙂
>
> Sent from my iPod

 
Posted : 16/06/2011 4:15 am
(@d-i-valles)
Posts: 64
Estimable Member
 

Y no solo en es una mina de oro en información, estoy seguro que
también es una buena oportunidad para tener una relación interpersonal
muy agradable que no muchas personas tienen la fortuna de
experimentar. Si trae consigo fotografías de familiares se
complementa. Te recomiendo que aproveches preguntar por los primos de
ella y otros parientes. Es posible que si ella no te da esa
información sea muy difícil para ti encontrarla por vía documental,
personalmente me gusta preguntar sobre el estilo de vida de los
parientes. Tal ves puedas acompañarla de regreso para que examines
fotografías y alimentes la relación.

Saludos desde Gomez Palacio, Lorenzo.

Israel Valles
Durango, MX

2011/6/15, Lorenzo Carrillo :
> So yesterday my 90 year old grandmother came for vacation. Already and she
> has been a great help in my quest for un-answered questions. I plan on
> recording / interviewing her as much as possible. She is a goldmine of
> information 🙂
>
> Sent from my iPod

 
Posted : 16/06/2011 4:15 am
(@makas_nc)
Posts: 2224
Member Admin
 

be careful when interviewing to not fluster her with direct questions.
Rather than ask “What year did your grandfather die?” Ask “Were you
married at the time your grandfather died?” or “How old were you when
your grandfather died?” or “Was Rosalie born by then when your
grandfather died?”

Answers to those questions will give the same answer since they can be
calculated and then later you can ask the direct question. The last
thing you want to do is “shut down” a conversation with too many direct
questions. In fact some of the best information I have received is from
just letting my older relatives tell me family stories. If the
conversation strays you can always gently swing it back on topic. You’ll
find that suddenly someone that couldn’t remember things remembers sooo
much detail about the family.

Have fun I only could wish I had my grandmother to listen to.

joseph

======================

Joseph Puentes
NoMeat@h2opodcast.com
http://h2opodcast.com/vsse.html (Vegan Environmental Solutions Podcast)
http://h2opodcast.com (Environmental Podcast)
http://h2opodcast.blogspot.com (Blog for above)
http://PleaseListenToYourMom.com (Women’s Peace Podcast)
http://NuestraFamiliaUnida.com (Latin American History Podcast)
http://nuestrosranchos.org (Jalisco, Zacatecas, and Aguascalientes
Genealogy)

Lorenzo Carrillo wrote:
> So yesterday my 90 year old grandmother came for vacation. Already and she has been a great help in my quest for un-answered questions. I plan on recording / interviewing her as much as possible. She is a goldmine of information 🙂
>
> Sent from my iPod

 
Posted : 16/06/2011 2:45 pm
(@makas_nc)
Posts: 2224
Member Admin
 

be careful when interviewing to not fluster her with direct questions.
Rather than ask “What year did your grandfather die?” Ask “Were you
married at the time your grandfather died?” or “How old were you when
your grandfather died?” or “Was Rosalie born by then when your
grandfather died?”

Answers to those questions will give the same answer since they can be
calculated and then later you can ask the direct question. The last
thing you want to do is “shut down” a conversation with too many direct
questions. In fact some of the best information I have received is from
just letting my older relatives tell me family stories. If the
conversation strays you can always gently swing it back on topic. You’ll
find that suddenly someone that couldn’t remember things remembers sooo
much detail about the family.

Have fun I only could wish I had my grandmother to listen to.

joseph

======================

Joseph Puentes
NoMeat@h2opodcast.com
http://h2opodcast.com/vsse.html (Vegan Environmental Solutions Podcast)
http://h2opodcast.com (Environmental Podcast)
http://h2opodcast.blogspot.com (Blog for above)
http://PleaseListenToYourMom.com (Women’s Peace Podcast)
http://NuestraFamiliaUnida.com (Latin American History Podcast)
http://nuestrosranchos.org (Jalisco, Zacatecas, and Aguascalientes
Genealogy)

Lorenzo Carrillo wrote:
> So yesterday my 90 year old grandmother came for vacation. Already
and she has been a great help in my quest for un-answered questions. I
plan on recording / interviewing her as much as possible. She is a
goldmine of information 🙂

 
Posted : 16/06/2011 2:45 pm
(@makas_nc)
Posts: 2224
Member Admin
 

be careful when interviewing to not fluster her with direct questions.
Rather than ask “What year did your grandfather die?” Ask “Were you
married at the time your grandfather died?” or “How old were you when
your grandfather died?” or “Was Rosalie born by then when your
grandfather died?”

Answers to those questions will give the same answer since they can be
calculated and then later you can ask the direct question. The last
thing you want to do is “shut down” a conversation with too many direct
questions. In fact some of the best information I have received is from
just letting my older relatives tell me family stories. If the
conversation strays you can always gently swing it back on topic. You’ll
find that suddenly someone that couldn’t remember things remembers sooo
much detail about the family.

Have fun I only could wish I had my grandmother to listen to.

joseph

======================

Joseph Puentes
NoMeat@h2opodcast.com
http://h2opodcast.com/vsse.html (Vegan Environmental Solutions Podcast)
http://h2opodcast.com (Environmental Podcast)
http://h2opodcast.blogspot.com (Blog for above)
http://PleaseListenToYourMom.com (Women’s Peace Podcast)
http://NuestraFamiliaUnida.com (Latin American History Podcast)
http://nuestrosranchos.org (Jalisco, Zacatecas, and Aguascalientes
Genealogy)

Lorenzo Carrillo wrote:
> So yesterday my 90 year old grandmother came for vacation. Already
and she has been a great help in my quest for un-answered questions. I
plan on recording / interviewing her as much as possible. She is a
goldmine of information

 
Posted : 16/06/2011 2:45 pm
(@paul-gomez)
Posts: 224
Reputable Member
 

Good suggestions, Joseph.

Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

—–Original Message—–
From: Joseph Puentes
Sender: general-bounces@lists.nuestrosranchos.org
Date: Thu, 16 Jun 2011 10:38:52
To:
Reply-to: general@nuestrosranchos.org
Subject: Re: [Nuestros Ranchos] Living history

be careful when interviewing to not fluster her with direct questions.
Rather than ask “What year did your grandfather die?” Ask “Were you
married at the time your grandfather died?” or “How old were you when
your grandfather died?” or “Was Rosalie born by then when your
grandfather died?”

Answers to those questions will give the same answer since they can be
calculated and then later you can ask the direct question. The last
thing you want to do is “shut down” a conversation with too many direct
questions. In fact some of the best information I have received is from
just letting my older relatives tell me family stories. If the
conversation strays you can always gently swing it back on topic. You’ll
find that suddenly someone that couldn’t remember things remembers sooo
much detail about the family.

Have fun I only could wish I had my grandmother to listen to.

joseph

======================

Joseph Puentes
NoMeat@h2opodcast.com
http://h2opodcast.com/vsse.html (Vegan Environmental Solutions Podcast)
http://h2opodcast.com (Environmental Podcast)
http://h2opodcast.blogspot.com (Blog for above)
http://PleaseListenToYourMom.com (Women’s Peace Podcast)
http://NuestraFamiliaUnida.com (Latin American History Podcast)
http://nuestrosranchos.org (Jalisco, Zacatecas, and Aguascalientes
Genealogy)

Lorenzo Carrillo wrote:
> So yesterday my 90 year old grandmother came for vacation. Already
and she has been a great help in my quest for un-answered questions. I
plan on recording / interviewing her as much as possible. She is a
goldmine of information

 
Posted : 16/06/2011 3:00 pm
(@paul-gomez)
Posts: 224
Reputable Member
 

What gives? I received three (3) of these identical messages.
Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

—–Original Message—–
From: Joseph Puentes
Sender: general-bounces@lists.nuestrosranchos.org
Date: Thu, 16 Jun 2011 10:36:19
To:
Reply-to: general@nuestrosranchos.org
Subject: Re: [Nuestros Ranchos] Living history

be careful when interviewing to not fluster her with direct questions.
Rather than ask “What year did your grandfather die?” Ask “Were you
married at the time your grandfather died?” or “How old were you when
your grandfather died?” or “Was Rosalie born by then when your
grandfather died?”

Answers to those questions will give the same answer since they can be
calculated and then later you can ask the direct question. The last
thing you want to do is “shut down” a conversation with too many direct
questions. In fact some of the best information I have received is from
just letting my older relatives tell me family stories. If the
conversation strays you can always gently swing it back on topic. You’ll
find that suddenly someone that couldn’t remember things remembers sooo
much detail about the family.

Have fun I only could wish I had my grandmother to listen to.

joseph

======================

Joseph Puentes
NoMeat@h2opodcast.com
http://h2opodcast.com/vsse.html (Vegan Environmental Solutions Podcast)
http://h2opodcast.com (Environmental Podcast)
http://h2opodcast.blogspot.com (Blog for above)
http://PleaseListenToYourMom.com (Women’s Peace Podcast)
http://NuestraFamiliaUnida.com (Latin American History Podcast)
http://nuestrosranchos.org (Jalisco, Zacatecas, and Aguascalientes
Genealogy)

Lorenzo Carrillo wrote:
> So yesterday my 90 year old grandmother came for vacation. Already and she has been a great help in my quest for un-answered questions. I plan on recording / interviewing her as much as possible. She is a goldmine of information 🙂
>
> Sent from my iPod

 
Posted : 16/06/2011 3:00 pm
(@d-i-valles)
Posts: 64
Estimable Member
 

Yo también he recibido 3 mensajes idénticos por cada intervención.

Que ocurre?

2011/6/16, paul.gomez@verizon.net :
> What gives? I received three (3) of these identical messages.
> Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry
>
> —–Original Message—–
> From: Joseph Puentes
> Sender: general-bounces@lists.nuestrosranchos.org
> Date: Thu, 16 Jun 2011 10:36:19
> To:
> Reply-to: general@nuestrosranchos.org
> Subject: Re: [Nuestros Ranchos] Living history
>
> be careful when interviewing to not fluster her with direct questions.
> Rather than ask “What year did your grandfather die?” Ask “Were you
> married at the time your grandfather died?” or “How old were you when
> your grandfather died?” or “Was Rosalie born by then when your
> grandfather died?”
>
> Answers to those questions will give the same answer since they can be
> calculated and then later you can ask the direct question. The last
> thing you want to do is “shut down” a conversation with too many direct
> questions. In fact some of the best information I have received is from
> just letting my older relatives tell me family stories. If the
> conversation strays you can always gently swing it back on topic. You’ll
> find that suddenly someone that couldn’t remember things remembers sooo
> much detail about the family.
>
> Have fun I only could wish I had my grandmother to listen to.
>
> joseph
>
> ======================
>
> Joseph Puentes
> NoMeat@h2opodcast.com
> http://h2opodcast.com/vsse.html (Vegan Environmental Solutions Podcast)
> http://h2opodcast.com (Environmental Podcast)
> http://h2opodcast.blogspot.com (Blog for above)
> http://PleaseListenToYourMom.com (Women’s Peace Podcast)
> http://NuestraFamiliaUnida.com (Latin American History Podcast)
> http://nuestrosranchos.org (Jalisco, Zacatecas, and Aguascalientes
> Genealogy)
>
>
>
> Lorenzo Carrillo wrote:
>> So yesterday my 90 year old grandmother came for vacation. Already and she
>> has been a great help in my quest for un-answered questions. I plan on
>> recording / interviewing her as much as possible. She is a goldmine of
>> information 🙂
>>
>> Sent from my iPod

 
Posted : 16/06/2011 3:45 pm
(@ybinsouthsac)
Posts: 21
 

Joseph
I loved your suggestion and will make it a point to use them in my own research
when asking questions with my family members.

Yvonne

 
Posted : 16/06/2011 4:00 pm
(@longsjourney)
Posts: 828
 

I tried “interviewing” my Dad alone and he said he could not remember but when I
called a family meeting with his sister and brothers they remembered by sharing
a story then someone else would add what they suddenly remembered.  I did tape
the conversation which lasted 3 hours. Since their gr-grandmother Nicolasa
Reveles (Mama Nico) lived to be 112 they had much to share.
Linda in B.C.

________________________________
From: Joseph Puentes
To: general@nuestrosranchos.org
Sent: Thu, June 16, 2011 7:36:19 AM
Subject: Re: [Nuestros Ranchos] Living history

be careful when interviewing to not fluster her with direct questions. Rather
than ask “What year did your grandfather die?” Ask “Were you married at the time
your grandfather died?” or “How old were you when your grandfather died?” or
“Was Rosalie born by then when your grandfather died?”

Answers to those questions will give the same answer since they can be
calculated and then later you can ask the direct question. The last thing you
want to do is “shut down” a conversation with too many direct questions. In fact
some of the best information I have received is from just letting my older
relatives tell me family stories. If the conversation strays you can always
gently swing it back on topic. You’ll find that suddenly someone that couldn’t
remember things remembers sooo much detail about the family.

Have fun I only could wish I had my grandmother to listen to.

joseph

======================

Joseph Puentes
NoMeat@h2opodcast.com
http://h2opodcast.com/vsse.html (Vegan Environmental Solutions Podcast)
http://h2opodcast.com (Environmental Podcast)
http://h2opodcast.blogspot.com (Blog for above)
http://PleaseListenToYourMom.com (Women’s Peace Podcast)
http://NuestraFamiliaUnida.com (Latin American History Podcast)
http://nuestrosranchos.org (Jalisco, Zacatecas, and Aguascalientes Genealogy)

Lorenzo Carrillo wrote:
> So yesterday my 90 year old grandmother came for vacation. Already and she has
>been a great help in my quest for un-answered questions. I plan on recording /
>interviewing her as much as possible. She is a goldmine of information 🙂
>
> Sent from my iPod

 
Posted : 16/06/2011 6:00 pm
(@meef98367)
Posts: 1036
 

I too have been receiving duplicate and triplicate messages, not just from Nuestros Ranchos, but from Ancestry.com

Emilie
Port Orchard, WA

> To: general@nuestrosranchos.org
> From: paul.gomez@verizon.net
> Date: Thu, 16 Jun 2011 14:52:03 +0000
> Subject: Re: [Nuestros Ranchos] Living history
>
> What gives? I received three (3) of these identical messages.
> Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry
>
> —–Original Message—–
> From: Joseph Puentes
> Sender: general-bounces@lists.nuestrosranchos.org
> Date: Thu, 16 Jun 2011 10:36:19
> To:
> Reply-to: general@nuestrosranchos.org
> Subject: Re: [Nuestros Ranchos] Living history
>
> be careful when interviewing to not fluster her with direct questions.
> Rather than ask “What year did your grandfather die?” Ask “Were you
> married at the time your grandfather died?” or “How old were you when
> your grandfather died?” or “Was Rosalie born by then when your
> grandfather died?”
>
> Answers to those questions will give the same answer since they can be
> calculated and then later you can ask the direct question. The last
> thing you want to do is “shut down” a conversation with too many direct
> questions. In fact some of the best information I have received is from
> just letting my older relatives tell me family stories. If the
> conversation strays you can always gently swing it back on topic. You’ll
> find that suddenly someone that couldn’t remember things remembers sooo
> much detail about the family.
>
> Have fun I only could wish I had my grandmother to listen to.
>
> joseph
>
> ======================
>
> Joseph Puentes
> NoMeat@h2opodcast.com
> http://h2opodcast.com/vsse.html (Vegan Environmental Solutions Podcast)
> http://h2opodcast.com (Environmental Podcast)
> http://h2opodcast.blogspot.com (Blog for above)
> http://PleaseListenToYourMom.com (Women’s Peace Podcast)
> http://NuestraFamiliaUnida.com (Latin American History Podcast)
> http://nuestrosranchos.org (Jalisco, Zacatecas, and Aguascalientes
> Genealogy)
>
>
>
> Lorenzo Carrillo wrote:
> > So yesterday my 90 year old grandmother came for vacation. Already and she has been a great help in my quest for un-answered questions. I plan on recording / interviewing her as much as possible. She is a goldmine of information 🙂
> >
> > Sent from my iPod
> > — — — — — — — — — — — — —
> > Nuestros Ranchos General Mailing List
> >
> > To post, send email to:
> > general(at)nuestrosranchos.org
> >
> > To change your subscription, log on to:
> > http://www.nuestrosranchos.org
> >
> >

 
Posted : 16/06/2011 6:15 pm
(@lorenzocarrillo94)
Posts: 36
Trusted Member
Topic starter
 

Lorenzo Carrillo

Yeah, I don’t know what is going on with the triplicate messages. Sorry guys.

My grandmother really really likes to talk . She won’t mind direct questions , I ask them all the time. She can go on and on for hours.

 
Posted : 16/06/2011 8:05 pm
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